Thursday, May 19, 2005

Friendship; Love Relationship...

hmm.. find it rather amazing.. and paiseh.. cos at my age, i still can be so emotional influence by the TV serials i watch.. haha.. i guess tis is my nature ba.. no matter how old i am, after watching a show, i will surely be influence by it at tat point in time.. anyway, juz wanna share the feeling of the show here..

title of show is Dou Yu.. well, is a Taiwan Ou Xiang Serial. had been on for quite a long time.. only now then me borrow the VCD from my fren to watch.. quite out dated lah.. but nvm. good show can be watch any time one lor.. hehe...

is a show abt frenship, love relationship, family kinship.. 3 impacts by the show after i watched.

1st impact: frenship
in the show, the 3 male leads r good buddies since young. and they had been so good tat they will always share everything together and will always be there for one another. i envy them cos in real life, tis kind of frenship is so hard to find and maintain.. or maybe i din meet up with such frenship ba.. i really envy them cos i always wanna have such frenship too... juz imagine how nice would it be to have a fren or 2 from young.. grow up with u. u and him/her can always be with 1 another at all times.. i longed for such frenship but unfortunately, i din meet up with it. act some pple can find tat kind of frenship but to me usually they r guys. juz like my bro.. he found a bunch of good buddies which 6 of them r the best buddies of all. they may not knew each since young, but their you qing is so so deep and firm.. i really envy my bro for tat. i oso wanna tat!!! i always tink tat becos i am a girl. usually between girls, such deep and transparent frenship r so hard to maintain.. pple say girls can communicate better but i tink likewise. i prefer guys' frenship, so pure, so firm and straightforward.. girls tend to be more narrow minded and petty abt many tings.. i have a gal fren. her 2 best buddies r guys ohh.. see, doesn't it explain itself tat guys' frenship is always more pure and simple?

2nd impact: love relationship
part A is abt Male Lead B giving up Female Lead A becos his best buddy, Male Lead A is in love with Female Lead A. is another wei da act.. silly but i can fully understand his feelings and pain.. is nv an easy job.. haiz... remind me of some unhappy moments.. but nutting lah.. hahaz..

part B is the love between Male Lead A and Female Lead A. typical love story where they went thru so much hardship before they can be together. but something unusual here is tat in tis show, i NEVER heard the word "so painful, then let's break up ba!" usually in the other shows, i will see tis once the couple have prob or quarrels. but here in tis show, no matter how hard tings had been, how painful they r, how terrible the situation goes, they NEVER abandon one another.. i really admire tat!!! i oso long for such marvellous love. a love tat NEVER say die easily, a love tat NEVER abandon each other so easily, a love tat can go thru all kind of pains and hardship.. but do such LOVE exist in real life? or shld i say i am over tat age to experience such LOVE? haha...

3rd impact: adapt to environment and change if necessary..
in the show, Female Lead A is a rich girl who is born in a good family where parents dote on her and she live a carefree life. however she chose to live a hard life with Male Lead A and from then change her life entirely. she is such a weak girl to be involve in such a harsh life and surrounding. but she nv give up and she din complain much abt the environment. she bravely face her decision and willing to change to adapt to her environment and new world.

in tis world, we all noe tis well enough. the world wun change for our sake, it wun stop becos we stop. if we can't adapt, we will lose out. but many pple always comlain tis and tat abt the place they r in.. they nv really put in effort to see how they can blend in. they only expect miracle to happen and change the environment to be their preferences. NO WAY! no way such miracle will happen... we all jolly well noe tis FACT but we always ignore and deny. haiz~~~ y lehz? esp sporean ah.. maybe our life juz too comfortable.. tis reminds me tat i am a sporean too.. will i be able to adapt and change according to environment when i reach Aust, juz as brave as the Female Lead A in the show or will i be typical pple, complaining and complaining & expect miracles? i always tink tat i have good adaption skills, do i really have? i will noe in a few mths time.. hehez..

after so much of feelings, i guess i have really digested the show ohh.. hahaz.. so much so tat i am addicted to the songs in the show.

hmm.. shows r acted and filmed becos there r similar situations everywhere; there r always reasons behind everything.. if not how scriptwriters come up with the stories for all the shows lehz? heeheez... haahaaz... :)

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