"Why girls tend to be so silly and stubborn when it c0me to someone she like?"

haha... before i start my blog.. muz tell those pple who r reading my blogger, so paiseh ah... my blog is very wordy and no pictures one.. (i already told u all before u all come lor.. heehee..) anyway, i prefer simple and plain lah.. cos tis blog is juz for me to pour out my words.. if i dun write, then no need have tis blog liao.. haha

anyway, today's topic is on "Why girls tend to be so silly and stubborn when it c0me to someone she like?"

yeahz! tis topic is something i had been pondering for very long cos i see so many typical examples around me where girls r so so faithful to the guy they like & get so persistent in liking tat person to an extend tat even tat guy hurt her, upset her or even give cold shoulder to her, she is still willing to give in, willing to wait & wait and nv stopping loving him.

i wouldn't say tis is silly or stupid cos i noe how all these waiting goes and how all these feelings can be so strong, persistent and stubborn as i've been through all these.. is torturing.. & trust me is a hard hard time. bearing all heart pain and upsetting moments juz to hope to sense for tat faraway & short moment of happiness. haiz.. i can tell u tat girls r not silly lor.. they noe wat they r doing. in fact they r very clear tat all these waiting for worth it, tat's y they r willing to bear with it. in some cases, it is happy ending where all these waiting & effort r paid off with everlasting happiness & blessing. in other cases, it is a sad ending. effort is nv appreciated and sometimes even taken for granted. (gosh! y guys can be so idiotic and heartless? sometimes really wanna strangle the guys, they S**KS sia! oops! pardon for such strong word..)

i witness many cases of happy and sad ending lor. hmm.. before i quote them as example, i muz say SORRY to those pple involve in my examples. i wun write down the name in case of sensitve lah.. but if it happen to make u tink of unhappy tings.. sorry sorry..

example of happy ending: i have a good fren from sec sch. ever since sec sch, she like tis guy who happen to be our classmate too. for so many yrs, she like him but NEVER mention to pple (apart from her sisters ba..) i really pei fu her ah.. mouth so tight & i can imagine the hard hard time she had went thru. imagine got to like a guy secretly & cannot show it out & got to act as if nutting happen. gosh! tat's like so torturing! BUT she actually bear with it and live with for so many yrs.. come to tink, shld be abt 6 yrs ah.. wow! isn't she great? wat so good abt tat guy leh? i oso wonder ah.. no matter wat, her effort paid off lor.. cos now she is happy girl in a happy relationship with a bf who dote on her. yeahz! the bf is the guy she like all these while. isn't tis a perfect ending?

however not all pple r as lucky as her lah.. juz like 2 of my good frens. they share the same fate with the guys they like respectively. they r holding on endlessly, waiting without regrets and giving in willingly to the guys they like. pple say tat they r silly & shld juz give up and forget abt such heartless guys. the guys r juz not worth their effort. but i noe they wun give up. reason being the feeling for tat guy is so so strong & deep.. reason being the girls juz cannot give up liking him. these girls r not silly. they r juz going after wat they believe in & juz not willing to give up so easily. actually their spirit is worth for our respect ah.. they r so brave lor.. they r persistent lor.. it is juz tat luck not shining on them.. the guys r taking them for granted and effort not appreciated. if we wanna them to wake up, it takes time..slowly ba..

hmm.. positive and negative examples r happening around. miracles do happen juz tat it takes time. as long as there is hope, there will be miracle BUT sometimes we shld learn to "forget" & "let go". by forgetting (force it!), u will take in new experiences, by letting go (force it!), u will accept new candidates..

girls r devoted animals.. too faithful & chi qing to an extend guys r scared of us.. but guys oso complain when girls r cold to them.. guys, y r u all so ma fan & heartless leh? haiyo..

to all my girl-friends who r waiting endlessly out there: i am in no position to ask u all give up on pple not worth ur effort cos i had been doing alot of waiting & giving in for pple who r not worthy at all. now i juz wanna treat myself kinder & be good to myself. we r all human beings, i would not say we can dun tink. but wat we can do is learn to forget & let go. i am learning too.. i tink it will have positive effect.. as in we can be happier & more relaxed.. easy to say but hard to do.. BUT muz try muz try hor..